The Search for Love
48. The Search for Love
原則 (Principle)
Principle
There is no need to go searching for love. Love will find you. To meet your other half, systematically run a slide in which you imagine your life together with some abstract individual who represents your ideal. At a certain point, a door will open and he or she will appear. From then on it will be up to you. You have to go through the door, take the first step, letting go of blind pride and any sort of prejudice. Take this step simply and sincerely without masquerade or affectation. Unaffectedness is always compelling. Likewise, always be yourself. Don’t try and change who you really are under any circumstances. Stay true to your own credo. Then the dual mirror will stay free of crooked distortion.
There is no need to go searching for love. Love will find you. To meet your other half, systematically run a slide in which you imagine your life together with some abstract individual who represents your ideal. At a certain point, a door will open and he or she will appear. From then on it will be up to you. You have to go through the door, take the first step, letting go of blind pride and any sort of prejudice. Take this step simply and sincerely without masquerade or affectation. Unaffectedness is always compelling. Likewise, always be yourself. Don’t try and change who you really are under any circumstances. Stay true to your own credo. Then the dual mirror will stay free of crooked distortion.
詮釋
Interpretation
A romantic slide should contain an abstract person who represents your ideal. You should only include a person you already know in your slide in the extreme case that no other means of finding requited love is open to you. In principle, you can run a slide in which you are both together and love each other. This is a script of a kind and so consequently, it will exist in the variants space but the other person concerned is not a passive object. They are a living being who is also actively realizing their intention. You might have some success with the slide but it won’t be very effective because no living person is stationary in the variants space. They are always hurrying about. Whilst you are busy ‘sliding’ the other person will quickly find for themselves a more ‘grounded’ partner. What’s more, the soul of the person who is being ‘slided’ will feel it happening and if they don’t like it, they may subconsciously begin to experience a feeling of aversion towards you. The best way of going about things is not to take the risk at all and arm yourself with the Frailing principle. Interpersonal relationships are the one case when you are forced to communicate with another living being rather than hanging about dreaming with your head in the clouds.
A romantic slide should contain an abstract person who represents your ideal. You should only include a person you already know in your slide in the extreme case that no other means of finding requited love is open to you. In principle, you can run a slide in which you are both together and love each other. This is a script of a kind and so consequently, it will exist in the variants space but the other person concerned is not a passive object. They are a living being who is also actively realizing their intention. You might have some success with the slide but it won’t be very effective because no living person is stationary in the variants space. They are always hurrying about. Whilst you are busy ‘sliding’ the other person will quickly find for themselves a more ‘grounded’ partner. What’s more, the soul of the person who is being ‘slided’ will feel it happening and if they don’t like it, they may subconsciously begin to experience a feeling of aversion towards you. The best way of going about things is not to take the risk at all and arm yourself with the Frailing principle. Interpersonal relationships are the one case when you are forced to communicate with another living being rather than hanging about dreaming with your head in the clouds.
- 尋找愛
48. The Search for Love
原則
Principle
不需要刻意去尋找愛，愛會找到你。要遇見你的另一半，系統地運行一個幻燈片 (Slide)，在其中你想像與某個代表你理想的抽象個體共同生活。在某個時刻，一扇門會打開，他或她會出現。從那時起，取決於你。你必須穿過那扇門，邁出第一步，放下盲目的驕傲和任何形式的偏見。簡單而真誠地邁出這一步，沒有偽裝或做作。自然不做作總是具有吸引力。同樣，永遠做自己。在任何情況下都不要試圖改變真實的自己。忠於自己的信念。這樣，雙重鏡子就不會有任何扭曲。
There is no need to go searching for love. Love will find you. To meet your other half, systematically run a slide in which you imagine your life together with some abstract individual who represents your ideal. At a certain point, a door will open and he or she will appear. From then on it will be up to you. You have to go through the door, take the first step, letting go of blind pride and any sort of prejudice. Take this step simply and sincerely without masquerade or affectation. Unaffectedness is always compelling. Likewise, always be yourself. Don’t try and change who you really are under any circumstances. Stay true to your own credo. Then the dual mirror will stay free of crooked distortion.
解釋
Interpretation
浪漫的幻燈片應該包含一個代表你理想的抽象人物。只有在沒有其他方法找到回報的愛情時，才應該在幻燈片中包含你已經認識的人。原則上，你可以運行一個幻燈片，顯示你們在一起並彼此相愛。這是一種劇本，因此它會存在於變體空間 (Alternatives space) 中，但涉及的另一個人不是被動的對象。他們是一個活生生的存在，也在積極實現自己的意圖。你可能會在幻燈片中取得一些成功，但效果不會太好，因為沒有一個活生生的人在變體空間中是靜止的。他們總是在忙碌地尋找更「實在」的伴侶。而且，被「滑動」的人靈魂會感受到這種發生，如果他們不喜歡，可能會潛意識地對你產生反感。最好的做法是不冒險，武裝自己以 Frailing 原則。人際關係是你被迫與另一個活生生的存在交流的唯一情況，而不是在雲端中夢想。
A romantic slide should contain an abstract person who represents your ideal. You should only include a person you already know in your slide in the extreme case that no other means of finding requited love is open to you. In principle, you can run a slide in which you are both together and love each other. This is a script of a kind and so consequently, it will exist in the variants space but the other person concerned is not a passive object. They are a living being who is also actively realizing their intention. You might have some success with the slide but it won’t be very effective because no living person is stationary in the variants space. They are always hurrying about. Whilst you are busy ‘sliding’ the other person will quickly find for themselves a more ‘grounded’ partner. What’s more, the soul of the person who is being ‘slided’ will feel it happening and if they don’t like it, they may subconsciously begin to experience a feeling of aversion towards you. The best way of going about things is not to take the risk at all and arm yourself with the Frailing principle. Interpersonal relationships are the one case when you are forced to communicate with another living being rather than hanging about dreaming with your head in the clouds.
- 尋找愛 (The Search for Love)
48. The Search for Love
原則
Principle
無需尋找愛。愛會找到你。為遇你的另一半，系統運行幻燈片 (Slide)，想像與某抽象理想人物的共同生活。某刻，門會開啟，他/她會出現。從此，決定在你。你需走過門，邁第一步，放棄盲目驕傲與任何偏見。簡單真誠邁步，無偽裝或矯情。真摯總具吸引力。同樣，永遠做自己。無論何種情況，勿試改變真我。忠於自己的信條 (Credo)。如此，雙面鏡 (Dual Mirror) 將無扭曲。
There is no need to go searching for love. Love will find you. To meet your other half, systematically run a slide in which you imagine your life together with some abstract individual who represents your ideal. At a certain point, a door will open and he or she will appear. From then on it will be up to you. You have to go through the door, take the first step, letting go of blind pride and any sort of prejudice. Take this step simply and sincerely without masquerade or affectation. Unaffectedness is always compelling. Likewise, always be yourself. Don’t try and change who you really are under any circumstances. Stay true to your own credo. Then the dual mirror will stay free of crooked distortion.
解釋
Interpretation
浪漫幻燈片應包含抽象的理想人物。僅在無其他途徑找到互愛的極端情況下，才在幻燈片中包含已知的人。原則上，你可運行你們相愛共處的幻燈片。這是一種劇本 (Script)，存在於另闢蹊徑之空間 (Variants Space)，但對方非被動對象。他們是有意圖的生物。你或許有些成功，但效果不佳，因無人在另闢蹊徑之空間靜止。他們總忙碌。你忙於“滑動”時，對方會快速找到更“踏實”的伴侶。更甚，被“滑動”者的靈魂會感覺，若不喜歡，可能潛意識對你產生厭惡。最佳方式是不冒險，武裝Frailing原則。人際關係是你必須與另一生物溝通的情況，而非在雲端夢想。
A romantic slide should contain an abstract person who represents your ideal. You should only include a person you already know in your slide in the extreme case that no other means of finding requited love is open to you. In principle, you can run a slide in which you are both together and love each other. This is a script of a kind and so consequently, it will exist in the variants space but the other person concerned is not a passive object. They are a living being who is also actively realizing their intention. You might have some success with the slide but it won’t be very effective because no living person is stationary in the variants space. They are always hurrying about. Whilst you are busy ‘sliding’ the other person will quickly find for themselves a more ‘grounded’ partner. What’s more, the soul of the person who is being ‘slided’ will feel it happening and if they don’t like it, they may subconsciously begin to experience a feeling of aversion towards you. The best way of going about things is not to take the risk at all and arm yourself with the Frailing principle. Interpersonal relationships are the one case when you are forced to communicate with another living being rather than hanging about dreaming with your head in the clouds.