我即是我的目標
15. I Am My Goal
原則 (Principle)
Principle
如果你曾被人拋棄、飽受單相思之苦，或正在尋找愛情，首要任務就是學會愛自己。如果你還未能接受現在的自己，那就從照顧自己、專注於個人成長開始：報名參加運動、投身學習外語、嘗試不同於平常風格的穿搭、紋上一個神奇的紋身，或挑選一件魔力護身符——例如墜飾或戒指。當你開始好好照顧自己，你會發現一個全新的生活目標，若你還未確立目標，那麼照顧自己就可成為你的最終追求。這真的是一個值得追求的目標，能帶給你成功與豐盛，因為你值得擁有最美好的一切。（Note: 著重強調自愛與自我提升的重要性）
If you have been ditched and are suffering from unrequited love or if you are looking for love, you must, first of all, love yourself. If you do not yet feel that you can love yourself just as you are, start taking care of yourself and focusing on your own personal development: enrol at a sports centre, commit to studying a foreign language, try dressing differently, not in your usual style, get a magic tatoo, find a magic talisman - a pendant or ring. When you start taking care of yourself, you will find a new sense of purpose. Looking after yourself could become your goal if you have not already found one. This is a truly worthy goal and it will bring you success and abundance. You deserve the very best.
詮釋
Interpretation
人性使然，我們常覺得只有當他人讚許我們時才能自我滿足，只有在被人愛著時才學會自愛。然而，世界是一面鏡子——若影像本身不蘊含愛，又如何能在反射中呈現愛呢？鏡子無法反映不存在的事物，這就形成了一個惡性鏡像循環。那麼，如何打破這個循環呢？很簡單。首先，眾所皆知，我們往往愛護那些我們曾照顧過的人。因此，多關注自己，好好照料自己，給自己一些獨處的時光。其次，愛就像回旋鏢；當你向世界投射愛意，愛也會回來滋潤你。只要你散發出愛，而不是傳遞恐懼、不信任或否定，你就會體驗到愛，包括自愛。走出第一步後，你將發現鏡像與你在半途相遇。基本上，這是一個反饋鏈：我向世界散播愛——愛被反射回來——世界回報愛意——我被愛著——接著我也開始愛自己。（Note: 強調反饋循環的重要和自愛的本質）
It is human nature that people are only pleased with themselves when other people happen to be pleased with them and that they only love themselves when others love them. And yet, the world is a mirror. How can there be love in the reflection if the image itself does not contain it? The mirror cannot reflect what isn’t there. It’s a vicious mirror circle. So, how do you break it? Very simply. Firstly, it is a well-known fact that we love the people we take care of. So, pay more attention to yourself, take care of yourself, take some ‘me time’. Secondly, love is like a boomerang. If you send love out into the world, it will come back to you. You will experience love, including love for yourself if you shine with love instead of emanating fear, mistrust, and disapproval. If you take the first step, the reflection will meet you half way. It is basically a feedback chain: I send love out to the world — love is reflected and comes back to me — the world reciprocates — I am loved — it follows that I like myself too and begin to love myself.
- 我就是我的目標(I Am My Goal)
15. I Am My Goal
原則
Principle
如果你被拋棄，正在遭受單戀之苦，或者正在尋找愛情，你首先必須愛自己。如果你還不能愛自己，就開始關心自己，專注於個人發展：報名參加健身中心，學習外語，嘗試不同風格的穿著，紋一個魔法紋身，找到一個魔法護身符——吊墜或戒指。當你開始關心自己時，你會發現新的目標感。照顧自己可以成為你的目標，如果你還沒有找到目標的話。這是一個真正值得追求的目標，會給你帶來成功和豐盛。你值得擁有最好的。
If you have been ditched and are suffering from unrequited love or if you are looking for love, you must, first of all, love yourself. If you do not yet feel that you can love yourself just as you are, start taking care of yourself and focusing on your own personal development: enrol at a sports centre, commit to studying a foreign language, try dressing differently, not in your usual style, get a magic tatoo, find a magic talisman - a pendant or ring. When you start taking care of yourself, you will find a new sense of purpose. Looking after yourself could become your goal if you have not already found one. This is a truly worthy goal and it will bring you success and abundance. You deserve the very best.
解釋
Interpretation
人性使得人們只有在別人對他們滿意時才會對自己滿意，只有在別人愛他們時才會愛自己。然而，世界是一面鏡子。如果圖像本身不包含愛，反射中怎麼會有愛呢？鏡子無法反射不存在的東西。這是一個惡性鏡子循環。那麼，你如何打破它？非常簡單。首先，眾所周知，我們愛我們所關心的人。所以，多關心自己，照顧自己，給自己一些“我”的時間。其次，愛就像回力鏢。如果你將愛送入世界，它會回到你身上。如果你散發愛而不是恐懼、不信任和不滿，你會體驗到愛，包括對自己的愛。如果你邁出第一步，反射會與你相遇。這基本上是一個反饋鏈：我將愛送入世界——愛被反射並回到我身上——世界回應——我被愛——這意味著我也喜歡自己，開始愛自己。
It is human nature that people are only pleased with themselves when other people happen to be pleased with them and that they only love themselves when others love them. And yet, the world is a mirror. How can there be love in the reflection if the image itself does not contain it? The mirror cannot reflect what isn’t there. It’s a vicious mirror circle. So, how do you break it? Very simply. Firstly, it is a well-known fact that we love the people we take care of. So, pay more attention to yourself, take care of yourself, take some ‘me time’. Secondly, love is like a boomerang. If you send love out into the world, it will come back to you. You will experience love, including love for yourself if you shine with love instead of emanating fear, mistrust, and disapproval. If you take the first step, the reflection will meet you half way. It is basically a feedback chain: I send love out to the world — love is reflected and comes back to me — the world reciprocates — I am loved — it follows that I like myself too and begin to love myself.
- 我是我的目標 (I Am My Goal)
15. I Am My Goal
原則
Principle
若你被拋棄、受單戀之苦或尋愛，首先愛自己。若你尚未感覺能愛真實的自己，開始照顧自己，聚焦個人發展：加入運動中心，學習外語，嘗試不同穿著，非慣常風格，紋魔法刺青，找魔法護身符——吊墜或戒指。當你開始照顧自己，會找到新目標感。照顧自己可成為目標，若你尚未找到。這是真正有價值的目標，帶來成功與充裕。你值得最好。
If you have been ditched and are suffering from unrequited love or if you are looking for love, you must, first of all, love yourself. If you do not yet feel that you can love yourself just as you are, start taking care of yourself and focusing on your own personal development: enrol at a sports centre, commit to studying a foreign language, try dressing differently, not in your usual style, get a magic tatoo, find a magic talisman - a pendant or ring. When you start taking care of yourself, you will find a new sense of purpose. Looking after yourself could become your goal if you have not already found one. This is a truly worthy goal and it will bring you success and abundance. You deserve the very best.
解釋
Interpretation
人性的本質是，僅當他人滿意時，人對自己滿意；僅當他人愛時，人愛自己。然而，世界是鏡子。若形象無愛，反射怎有愛？鏡子無法反映不存在的。這是惡性鏡子圈。如何打破？很簡單。首先，眾所周知，我們愛我們照顧的人。多關注自己，照顧自己，留“自我時間”。其次，愛如迴旋鏢。若你將愛送入世界，它會回歸。若你閃耀愛而非散發恐懼、不信任、反對，你會體驗愛，包括自愛。若你邁出第一步，反射會與你相會。這是反饋鏈：我送愛至世界——愛被反射回——世界回應——我被愛——我喜歡自己，開始愛自己。
It is human nature that people are only pleased with themselves when other people happen to be pleased with them and that they only love themselves when others love them. And yet, the world is a mirror. How can there be love in the reflection if the image itself does not contain it? The mirror cannot reflect what isn’t there. It’s a vicious mirror circle. So, how do you break it? Very simply. Firstly, it is a well-known fact that we love the people we take care of. So, pay more attention to yourself, take care of yourself, take some ‘me time’. Secondly, love is like a boomerang. If you send love out into the world, it will come back to you. You will experience love, including love for yourself if you shine with love instead of emanating fear, mistrust, and disapproval. If you take the first step, the reflection will meet you half way. It is basically a feedback chain: I send love out to the world — love is reflected and comes back to me — the world reciprocates — I am loved — it follows that I like myself too and begin to love myself.