第21章:我死後的生活

Chapter 21: My Life After Death

第二年二月,奶奶 Dona 跨入了彼岸——距我從那邊回來僅僅一年多一點;她的離世標誌著我和 Andrea 離開 Afton,開始了自創人生新篇章的起點。

Grandma Dona transitioned to the next world the following February—a little more than a year after I had come back from there. Her death marked the beginning of a new chapter for Andrea and me as we left Afton to create a life for ourselves.


當然,我仍有許多成長的功課要學,還有許多艱難險阻必須面對,但如今我活得與從前大不相同,我努力關注他人的需要,並盡我所能去幫助他們;在接納靈性印象的過程中,我也變得極度敏銳,能洞見周遭的一切。

Of course, I still had a lot of growth ahead of me, with plenty of hard things to go through and a lot to learn, but I live my life differently than I did before. I continue to do my best to be aware of the needs of others and to help those who I can. As I strive to be open to spiritual impressions, I have become hyperaware of what is going on around me.


不同人對靈性印象的感受各異;而對我來說,那就像一股攜帶著信息的能量波。當我仔細分辨那些信息後,便能識別出某人的需求,並從彼岸獲得如何履行自己責任的指引。有時候,那是一種物質上的需要;有時候,我會隨手傳遞一則看似隨意的建議,即便對我而言毫無意義。

Different people perceive spiritual impressions in different ways. For me, they feel like an energy wave carrying information. As I sift through that information, I can recognize someone’s need and receive guidance from the other side on how to do my part to fulfill it. Sometimes, it is a physical need. Sometimes, I pass along what feels like a random piece of advice to someone, even if it makes no sense to me.


一個炎熱的夏日,我與一位朋友正驅車前往當地咖啡廳享用午餐,途中我注意到一位無家可歸的流浪漢正緩步走過街道,我感覺到他疲憊且饑腸轆轆,預見到沒過幾分鐘,他便會經過我們即將前往的咖啡廳。

One hot summer day, a friend and I were driving to a local café to have lunch. I saw a homeless man walking down the street. I sensed that he was tired and hungry and saw that in a few minutes, he would pass by the café we were going to.


我將思緒傳送給那位流浪漢的嚮導,懇求道:「他會去我們那間咖啡廳嗎?」

I sent my thoughts to the man’s guides and asked, “Is he going to the same café we are?”


我感受到回應:「不,他會繼續走過去。」

I felt the reply, “No, he’s going to keep walking past it.”


我又祈求道:「能否催促他進去?天太熱了,他進去涼涼會好些。」

“Can you urge him to go inside? It’s a hot day, and he can cool off for a minute.”


回應是肯定的:「可以。」

“Yes.”


我和朋友進入咖啡廳並點了餐,我還另外加點了一份午餐。

My friend and I entered the café and ordered our food. I ordered an extra lunch.


“你一定好餓啊,”我的朋友說。

“You must be really hungry,” said my friend.


我對他微笑著回答:“等著瞧。”

I smiled at him. “You’ll see.”


當食物上桌時,我把自己的餐點擺在桌上,然後拿著盛有額外食物的托盤走向飲料機,先把自己的飲料灌滿,再為那位無家可歸的人也倒上一杯。

When our food was ready, I set my meal on the table, then took the tray with the extra food to the drink machine. I filled up my drink, then a drink for the homeless man.


當我灌滿第二杯飲料時,那位無家可歸的人走進正門,坐到一張桌旁。我走向他,把托盤放在他面前,說道:“這是你的午餐。”看到他困惑的神情,我以微笑回應,隨後回到自己的桌邊,而我的朋友則滿臉驚訝,眼睛睜得大大的,不敢相信剛才所發生的一切。

As I finished filling the second drink, the homeless man walked in through the front door and sat down at a table. I walked over to him, set the tray down in front of him, and said, “Here’s your lunch.” I met his puzzled look with a smile and returned to my table, where my friend sat in wide- eyed surprise at what had just happened.


無論這經歷看起來多麼神奇,其實我只是察覺到了某人的需求,並立即行動滿足了那需求。我學到,越是關照周遭他人的需要,我們自己便會越來越快樂,內心所感到的缺乏也就越少。我們是造物主所設計,從中能獲得幫助別人時的喜悅。無論是我們去幫助別人,還是成為被幫助的對象,彼此見證上帝的創造都能使我們充滿活力,絕不可能有別的情形。

As amazing as that experience might seem, I was simply made aware of a need and acted to meet that need. I’ve learned that the more we are mindful of the needs of those around us, the happier we are, and the fewer needs we feel for ourselves. We are designed by our Creator to find joy in helping others. Whether it’s us doing the helping, or being the one receiving it, we are vitalized by experiencing God’s creations serving each other. It can’t be otherwise.


就我個人而言,我仍在努力掌握 Drake 教導我的原則,每天我都力行超越自身的需要,並嘗試每天幫助至少幾個人。大部分日子我都能做到,但並非總是如此——這是一個過程。

Personally, I am still working to master the principles that Drake taught me. Every day, I strive to live outside of my own needs and help at least a few people every day. Most days I am successful, but not always. It’s a process.


我也學會了以熱情去生活、以熱情去愛。只要你找到真正的熱情,就會遇到那些在生命中實現自我使命的靈魂。那神聖的熱情驅使著我們去學習、成長與創造;神聖的熱情滋養出在關係、事業與自我中的創造力,也正是那種熱情造就了愛。當一個人內心充滿那樣的火焰時,他的生活便如同黑暗夜晚中的篝火般光芒四射;再加上上帝的愛,這篝火散發的溫暖能撫慰他人於寒夜之中。

I have also learned to live life with passion and to love with passion. Where you find true passion, you will find souls that are fulfilling their mission in life. Divine passion is what drives us to learn and to grow and to build. Divine passion is what fosters creation in relationships, in careers, in ourselves. Divine passion is what creates love. When someone has that kind of fire within themselves, their life lights up like a bonfire on a dark night. When they add the love of God, that bonfire radiates a warmth that comforts others in the cold nights of life.


上帝的熱情創造了宇宙;正是祂對我們深沉的熱愛構建了整個宇宙。正是這股熱情在創造、在啟動,他那滿懷熱情的愛認識每一個人,甚至包括你,瞭解你每一個想法、每一個渴望與所做的一切。

God’s passion built the universe. It was His passionate love for us that built the cosmos. It’s passion that creates. It’s His passionate love that knows each and every single one of us. It’s His passionate love that knows you personally, individually. He knows your every thought. He knows everything you’ve ever wanted, desired, or done.


你無需害怕祂的全知;上帝是絕對愛的父親,祂懂得你犯錯的原因,甚至在你犯錯之前就已預知。但祂也知道你的潛能,瞭解你能成為什麼樣的人,並渴望看到你發揮那潛能,成長並成就所有可能。

You don’t have to fear that He knows. God is a father of absolute love. He knows why you make mistakes. He knows before you even make them. But He also knows your potential. He knows what you can become, and He longs for you to develop that potential, to grow into it and become all that you can be.


我挑戰你,每天都應給予自己的靈魂成長的機會——不要讓任何一天白白浪費。

I challenge you to take the opportunity to grow your soul every day—to let no day be wasted.


我懇請你留心那些對身心靈有害的影響,避免攝取會讓你對靈性事物感知鈍化的事物,不論是物質、思想、情感還是靈性上的。防範那些會拉低你精神層次的節目、電影以及其他媒體活動;遠離那些分散並支配你生活的科技產品,無論是手機、電腦或其他裝置。若你不加以謹慎並有意識地控制,這些科技可使你變成漫無目的、失去靈性影響的機器人。

I implore you to watch out for harmful influences to your body and spirit. Avoid taking in things that will dull your sensitivity to spiritual things, whether they are physical, mental, emotional, or spiritual. Guard against shows, movies, and other media and activities that will pull your spirit down. Unplug from technology that distracts and controls you, whether it is a phone, computer, or any other technology that controls your life. If you’re not careful and intentional about it, technology can turn you into a robot wandering through life without the spiritual influence He intended.


尋求美好,把美食、美好媒體和好朋友充實你的生活,豐富自己,擴展靈魂。

Seek good. Fill your life with good food, good media, and good friends. Enrich your life and enlarge your soul.


即便你懷疑我們存在著靈性的一面——哪怕你全然不信——我仍挑戰你去檢驗,從心懷感恩開始,並尋求你問題的答案;學習引導和答案的方式可能需要時間,但請持續嘗試,努力提高對各種印象、閃現腦海的思想,以及那些能夠改善你生活的好點子的敏銳度。當你不斷實踐並勇敢伸出援手,我保證,祂的宇宙必定會給予回應。

If you are skeptical about there being a spiritual side to our existence—even if you don’t believe it at all—I challenge you to test it. Start by keeping gratitude in your heart, and seek for answers to your questions. It may take time to learn how guidance and answers come to you but keep trying. Strive to develop a greater awareness of impressions, of the thoughts that come to you, and of good ideas that can improve your life. As you practice and strive to reach out, I promise you that His universe will answer.


當你向外拓展、向上攀升時,你將在自己的生活中發現真理;你會發現上帝親自賜予的溫暖指引;你也會驚覺自己已是那個靈性社群的一分子——一個由覺醒眾生組成的大家庭。當你接觸上帝之光,你會開始認出四周所閃爍的那道光,並開始納悶你早前怎會錯過它;你將真切地感受到上帝的臨在,就像我曾在草地、樹木和天堂中花香與花朵間所感受到、聞到、嚐到的一樣。

As you reach outward and upward, you will discover truths in your own life. You will find loving direction coming directly from God. You will also find that you are already part of a spiritual community—a grand family of enlightened beings. As you connect to God’s light, you will begin to recognize that light all around you. You will begin to wonder how you hadn’t seen it. You will actually feel and recognize the presence of God, the presence that I saw and felt, that I smelled and tasted in the grass and the trees and the flowers in heaven.


我看見那光從各種膚色、各種文化、各種種族、各種生活方式乃至各種信仰的兄弟姐妹身上綻放;當我遇到屬於我靈魂部落、上帝的部落中的其他人時,我迎來了生命中最幸福的時刻。就是那份愛徹底改變了我,而它也能改變你。

I have seen that light coming from my brothers and sisters of all colors, all cultures, all races, all lifestyles, all religions. It’s when I find someone else from my spirit tribe, God’s tribe, that I experience my happiest moments. It is that love that changed me forever, and it can change you, too.


現在我已成為一位父親。自從女兒還是小孩子時,Andrea 和我便開始傳授這些原則給她。如今,她正步入青少年時期,對光(Note: 指的是上帝之光與啟迪人心的光)已頗為熟悉;她有時會告訴我們,當她察覺到別人身上有或沒有這種存在時的不同感受。每當她到朋友家中時,總會說那裡不像我們家一般充滿愛的能量。我不斷提醒她,無論她觀看、閱讀或傾聽什麼,都將成為她的一部分。在一切事物中,我們都謹慎地以愛引導她,因為愛遠比權威或憤怒更能感召人心。她正是活出這些原則,認識光(Note: 此處之光代表真理和靈性覺醒)的明證;她理解光,也居住在這光之中。

I am a father now. Andrea and I have taught these principles to our daughter since she was a child. Now, she is entering her teenage years, and the light is familiar to her. She will sometimes mention to us when she notices its presence or absence in others. She tells us when she goes to a friend’s house, and there isn’t the same love energy that she feels at home. I keep reminding her that whatever she watches, reads, or listens to, she makes it a part of herself. In all things, we are careful to lead her in love. Love will persuade far more than using authority or anger. She is evidence of how living these principles can help us to know the light. She understands the light, and she dwells in the light.


我希望,通過分享我在“另一邊”(Note: 另一邊即指彼岸)的所學,能夠幫助你內在建立起這光,同時觸動他人的心,將上帝之光傳遍全世界、跨越所有文化與宗教,傳遞給任何準備好接受這愛與光訊息的人。

My hope is that sharing what I learned on the “other side” will help to build the light in you, and in others it may touch, to spread God’s light throughout the world, across all cultures, across all religions, to anyone who is ready for this message of love and light.


我的人生故事還不止於此。我曾獲准目睹一些將在未來發生的驚人之事,這些並非可怕的事,而是光榮的景象,給予我們希望的理由。

There is more to my story. I was allowed to see some amazing things that are going to happen in the future. These are not scary things. They are glorious things. There is reason for hope.


最重要 (Importance) 的是,請你一定要知道,上帝深深地愛著你;祂個別認識你,也真切愛你,了解你每一個充滿愛與美好的想法,同時也知曉你所有陰暗的念頭與行為。而祂的光與愛足以沖淡一切黑暗,因為在祂的光中,黑暗根本無法存在。放下對自己和他人的評判吧。

Most important, know that God loves you. He knows you personally, and He loves you personally. He knows every loving, beautiful thought you’ve ever had. He also knows every dark thought and action. His light and love are enough to wash it away. Darkness cannot exist in His light. Let the judgment go, of yourself as well as others.


上帝愛祂所有的創造,每時每刻都在向我們伸出援手,無一例外。對我們這有限的心靈而言,「所有」這個詞似乎難以完全理解,但這確實是真理——你是祂整體的一部分,這點值得不斷重申。你就是祂的全體之一;祂就這樣,原樣地愛著你,並以祂獨有的方式認識你的潛能。

God loves all of his creations and is constantly reaching out to us. All of us. The word “all” is difficult for our finite minds to comprehend, but it’s true. You are part of His all. That deserves repeating. You are part of His all. He loves you, as you are, knowing your potential as only He can.


上帝就是愛,而擁抱這份愛,正取決於我們自己。

God is love. It’s up to us to embrace it.


還想聽更多嗎?

Ready for More?


既然你已學會 Drake 傳授給 Vincent 的十項原則,那麼你也已準備好體驗《Living the Light》——一本活動指南,旨在幫助你落實這十項原則,並在生活中增加光與愛的能量。

Now that you’ve learned the ten principles that Drake taught Vincent, you are ready for Living the Light, an activity guide to help you live the ten principles and increase light and love in your life.


請前往 TheLightAfterDeath.com 瞭解如何獲得《Living the Light》一書。

Learn how to get your copy of Living the Light at TheLightAfterDeath.com


你還可以訪問該網站,獲取更多額外內容:

You can also visit that site for additional content:


• Andrea Tolman 關於與 Vincent 相識的觀點

• Andrea Tolman’s perspective on meeting Vincent


• Vincent、Drake 與奶奶 Dona 的照片

• Photos of Vincent, Drake, and Grandma Dona


• 更多關於 Vincent 與 Andrea 的女兒如何傾聽靈性指引的實例

• Additional examples of how Vincent and Andrea’s daughter listens to spiritual guidance


我們也誠摯邀請你加入「Living God’s Light」——這是一個全球社群,旨在為你的生活增添光明,同時幫助將上帝之光傳遍世界。

We also invite you to join Living God’s Light, a global community created to increase the light in your life and help spread God’s Light in the world.


LivingGodsLight.com

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