人際關係中的能量

Energy in Relationships

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在「擺錘 (Pendulum)」一章中,我談到了視覺化的好處。提醒你一下,視覺化的精髓在於:假設有人正在給你造成麻煩、令你惱火,甚至攻擊你;或者情況正好相反,你需要某人的幫助。若是如此,你需要大致弄清楚:究竟是什麼在驅使那個人?是什麼讓他們痛苦?他們缺少的是健康、信心,還是內在的平靜?每個人都有某種事物在消耗著他們,哪怕那只是微不足道的小煩惱,尤其是當那個人正給你帶來問題,或者你給他們帶來麻煩時。現在,想像一個情景,那個人恰好得到了他們所需要的。

In the chapter “pendulums” I talked about the benefit of visualisation. Just to remind you, the essence of visualisation is the following: Let us suppose that someone is causing you a problem, annoying you or even attacking you. Or perhaps the situation is the opposite and you need something from someone. If this is the case, you need to roughly determine what is driving that person; what is eating at them and what they are lacking: health, confidence, inner calm? Everyone has something that eats away at them, even if it is something relatively small and niggling, especially if that person is causing you problems or it may be you causing them a problem! Now imagine a situation in which that person receives exactly what they need.


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例如,想像那個人正從事他們最熱愛的活動——一件能帶給他們快樂、滿足與平靜的事。不必過度計較那理想情景的細節,只需在腦海中浮現出第一幅畫面。也許他們正坐在家中爐邊啜飲著啤酒,或在大海中快樂地游泳,漫步於野花盛開的山谷中,騎著自行車,或因喜悅而跳躍。如果你能在心中呈現這幅圖景,令對方感到愉悅,他們便會莫名其妙地對你產生好感,進而按你的要求行動,或緩解原本棘手的局面。

For example, imagine that person doing what they love most, the thing that gives them a feeling of pleasure, fulfilment and peace. There is no need to think too hard about the details of the favourable scenario. Just visualise the first picture that comes to mind. They might be sitting at home by the fire with a glass of beer, swimming happily in the sea, wandering through a valley of wild flowers, riding a bicycle or jumping for joy. If you manage to “please” this person with the picture in your mind they will become well-disposed towards you seemingly for no reason, and will do what you ask of them, or ease the problematic situation.


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這裡究竟發生了什麼?這和觀看一部好電影極為相似——我指的是那種能傳遞生命喜悅的電影。觀看這樣的電影後,你會感到心情愉悅,內心充滿輕快而慶典般的氣氛。這部電影在智識與情感層面上都為靈魂創造了一場盛宴。有益的視覺化在能量層面上同樣激發出這種感受。如果你能成功調適到某人的 Frailing (Frailing) 並洞察他們的需求,他們就會覺得仿佛一陣溫暖的「幸運之波」(Wave of fortune) 突然降臨在身上。

What is really happening here? It is pretty much the same as watching a good film and by that I mean a film that conveys a sense of the joy of life. You watch a film like that and you begin to feel good, and your heart is filled with a light festive feeling. The film creates a celebration for the soul both on an intellectual and an emotional level. Beneficial visualisation also creates this feeling on an energetic level. If you have been able to successfully attune to a person’s fraile and guess what their needs are, they will feel as if a comforting wave has suddenly come over them.


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智識層面與能量層面的慶祝感受之差異在於:當一個人接收到你視覺化所釋放的細膩能量時,雖不自知其來源,但會自然產生一種撫慰心靈的舒適感。這一點並不重要,重點在於,對方此刻與你相處時感到舒適,你也因此贏得了他們的好感。請記住,這種有益的視覺化必須以真誠進行,藉由「心與意的統一」(Unity of heart and mind) 來達成;只要你真心祝福對方,其效果便會十分顯著。(Note: 真誠的視覺化能促進彼此心靈合一)

The difference between the feeling of celebration on an intellectual and an energetic level is this: when a person receives the energy delicacy of your visualisation they experience a comforting feeling without being aware of its source. That does not actually matter. The important thing is that the person will now feel comfortable when they are with you and you will have won their good- will. It is important to remember that a beneficial visualisation like this should be carried out with sincerity by uniting the heart and mind. If you genuinely wish the other person well, the effect can be quite substantial.


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如你所知,正是充沛的自由能量令一個人顯得迷人、充滿磁性、強大而富有魅力。人們常在潛意識中捕捉一個強大個體所散發的能量;根據一個人能量質感的柔和或強烈,他們會展現出不同層次的魅力與力量。無論如何,一個人能量的強度與其自由能量的數量以及「心與意的統一」(Unity of heart and mind) 之間的聯繫密切度呈正比。當過剩的自由能量如同噴泉般湧流時,周圍的人都能感受到那股熱情。自由能量是由思想所編程的;而當心與意 (Unity of heart and mind) 越趨一致,這種編程就越顯純淨。難怪堅強的人格總顯得正直而完整。

As you know, it is the abundance of free energy that makes a person charming, magnetic, powerful and charismatic. People mostly pick up on the energy of a powerful personality subconsciously. Depending on whether the person’s energy is softer or harsher they will come across as more or less charming or powerful. In any case, the force of a person’s energy is proportional to the volume of free energy they run and the strength of their connection between their heart and mind. The excess of free energy overflows in a fountain and is felt by others. Free energy is programmed by thought. The closer the strivings of the heart and mind the purer the programming will be. It is no coincidence that strong personalities come across as having strong integrity and wholeness.


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正如我先前所言,魅力實際上代表著心與意 (Unity of heart and mind) 之間的相互愛慕。當心靈得以舒展,自然使個體更具吸引力與磁性。他們的吸引力不全在於個人力量,而更在於心與意之間的連結。這正是許多人所缺少的,因此,他們猶如飛蛾撲火般被這類人吸引。在能量層面上,魅力展現為一個人當心與意 (Unity of heart and mind) 統一時所釋放出的能量;若噴泉般的能量足夠強大,對方將真正散發出獨一無二的魅力。

As I have already said, charm is in fact mutual love between the heart and mind. When the heart is let out of its box it makes a person more attractive and magnetic. Their attractiveness lies not so much in their personal power as in the connection between their heart and mind. This is what people are lacking and so they feel drawn to such people as moths are drawn to the light. On an energetic level charm represents the energy a person radiates when they have union of heart and mind. If the force of their energy fountains is great enough they will literally shine with inimitable charm.


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那些充滿魅力的人生活在心與意 (Unity of heart and mind) 完全和諧的狀態中,也就是遵循他們自身的信條。他們快樂、享受生命,並沉浸在自愛之中,而毫無絲毫自戀之態。周圍的人都能感受到他們持續洋溢著慶祝生命的喜悅。

People with heaps of charm live in a condition of harmony between the heart and mind, that is, in accordance with their own credo. People like this are happy; they enjoy life and bathe in their own love without the slightest whiff of narcissism. Other people can sense their constant feeling of celebration.


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這樣的人雖然稀少,但你也能成為其中一員。你只需要勇敢地面對自己的內心,學會愛自己,並啟程走向你內心深處的「目標與門扉」(Goals and doors)。如此一來,你的個人特質將隨之改變,你的體態愈加吸引人,面容更顯柔和,笑容也更迷人。當你穩立在你的「生命線」(Life line) 上,你的外在形象——亦即那「替代空間」(Sector of the alternatives space) 中的一部分風景——便會與你見到自我完美時釋放出的能量特質相輔相成。這一切並非遙不可及;若你不信,可瀏覽那些你曾經處於低潮時所拍攝的照片。

Such people are few and far between but you could be one of them. You just have to turn to face your heart, love yourself and set out on the path to your innermost goal. Not only will your personal qualities change but your body will become more attractive, your face softer and your smile enchanting. When you are firmly on your target life line your external appearance, i.e. part of the scenery of that sector, will correspond to the characteristics of the energy you radiate when you see your own perfection. This is not as unlikely as it might seem. If you do not believe me, just look through some photographs of yourself that were taken when you were going through a dark period in your life.


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透過訓練你的經絡 (meridians) 並提升能量水平,你將培養出影響他人並激發他們對你產生善意的非凡能力。要成為派對上的靈魂人物,你只需放下「重要性」(Importance) 的執著,啟動你的能量噴泉。擁有豐沛自由能量的人總能自然吸引他人的興趣與好感;尤其當你的自由能量與在場人士的思想能量相調適時,效果尤為明顯。

By training your meridians and increasing your energy levels you will develop the unusual ability to influence people and inspire their good will towards you. To become the life and soul of the party all you have to do is abandon importance and turn on your energy fountains. A person with an abundance of free energy always evokes the interest and good will of others. This is particularly evident when free energy is attuned to the thought energy of those present.


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你或許會與一群同事或朋友展開討論,此時在場所有人的思想能量似乎都在圍繞同一主題震盪,就像大家齊心合意一般。打開你的能量噴泉,讓它灌注整個團體;感受你的能量場逐漸擴大,覆蓋所有參與者。如此一來,你的發言將更具分量,而其他人也會切實感受到你思想的強大影響力。

You might find yourself having a discussion with a group of colleagues or friends. The frequency of the thought energy of those present will be attuned roughly to the same theme as if they were all swaying in unison. Turn on your fountains and let them flood your group. Feel your energy field and sense it expanding to encompass everyone taking part in the discussion. Then your comments will have greater weight and the other people present will feel the power of your thoughts.


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當你與某人進行一對一交談時,可以在心中為他們投射一個有益的視覺化圖像。若此時你的能量噴泉也在運作,便能營造出極為有利的印象。這項技巧在需要你個人魅力或實力展現的場合中,無論是談判、考試、面試或人際交往,皆能使你脫穎而出,取得巨大成功。

When talking to a person one to one you can mentally launch a beneficial visualisation for them. If your energy fountains are working at the same time you will create a most favourable impression. This technique will grant you a huge advantage in situations that require your personal charm or strength making you successful in negotiations, exams, job interviews and personal relationships.


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一個良好的視覺化是調適到你交談對象頻率的有效且寬容的方法。所謂的能量吸血鬼往往會通過拉扯痛苦的弦線或侵入你內心的靈魂空間來調適對方的 Frailing (Frailing);而你不同於那些吸血鬼,你不會去撥弄對方的 Frailing (Frailing) 或耗盡其能量。對方會感激這種方式,並心存感激。

A favourable visualisation is an effective and tolerant means of attuning to the frequency of the person you are conversing with. Energy vampires attune to fraile by pulling on painful strings or invading your soul space. Unlike energy vampires you are not ‘pawing’ at the other person’s fraile or draining their energy. They will appreciate it and be grateful to you.


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