人際關係中的能量
Energy in Relationships
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在「擺錘 (Pendulum)」一章中,我談到了視覺化的好處。提醒你一下,視覺化的精髓在於:假設有人正在給你造成麻煩、令你惱火,甚至攻擊你;或者情況正好相反,你需要某人的幫助。若是如此,你需要大致弄清楚:究竟是什麼在驅使那個人?是什麼讓他們痛苦?他們缺少的是健康、信心,還是內在的平靜?每個人都有某種事物在消耗著他們,哪怕那只是微不足道的小煩惱,尤其是當那個人正給你帶來問題,或者你給他們帶來麻煩時。現在,想像一個情景,那個人恰好得到了他們所需要的。
In the chapter “pendulums” I talked about the benefit of visualisation. Just to remind you, the essence of visualisation is the following: Let us suppose that someone is causing you a problem, annoying you or even attacking you. Or perhaps the situation is the opposite and you need something from someone. If this is the case, you need to roughly determine what is driving that person; what is eating at them and what they are lacking: health, confidence, inner calm? Everyone has something that eats away at them, even if it is something relatively small and niggling, especially if that person is causing you problems or it may be you causing them a problem! Now imagine a situation in which that person receives exactly what they need.
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例如,想像那個人正從事他們最熱愛的活動——一件能帶給他們快樂、滿足與平靜的事。不必過度計較那理想情景的細節,只需在腦海中浮現出第一幅畫面。也許他們正坐在家中爐邊啜飲著啤酒,或在大海中快樂地游泳,漫步於野花盛開的山谷中,騎著自行車,或因喜悅而跳躍。如果你能在心中呈現這幅圖景,令對方感到愉悅,他們便會莫名其妙地對你產生好感,進而按你的要求行動,或緩解原本棘手的局面。
For example, imagine that person doing what they love most, the thing that gives them a feeling of pleasure, fulfilment and peace. There is no need to think too hard about the details of the favourable scenario. Just visualise the first picture that comes to mind. They might be sitting at home by the fire with a glass of beer, swimming happily in the sea, wandering through a valley of wild flowers, riding a bicycle or jumping for joy. If you manage to “please” this person with the picture in your mind they will become well-disposed towards you seemingly for no reason, and will do what you ask of them, or ease the problematic situation.
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這裡究竟發生了什麼?這和觀看一部好電影極為相似——我指的是那種能傳遞生命喜悅的電影。觀看這樣的電影後,你會感到心情愉悅,內心充滿輕快而慶典般的氣氛。這部電影在智識與情感層面上都為靈魂創造了一場盛宴。有益的視覺化在能量層面上同樣激發出這種感受。如果你能成功調適到某人的 Frailing (Frailing) 並洞察他們的需求,他們就會覺得仿佛一陣溫暖的「幸運之波」(Wave of fortune) 突然降臨在身上。
What is really happening here? It is pretty much the same as watching a good film and by that I mean a film that conveys a sense of the joy of life. You watch a film like that and you begin to feel good, and your heart is filled with a light festive feeling. The film creates a celebration for the soul both on an intellectual and an emotional level. Beneficial visualisation also creates this feeling on an energetic level. If you have been able to successfully attune to a person’s fraile and guess what their needs are, they will feel as if a comforting wave has suddenly come over them.
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智識層面與能量層面的慶祝感受之差異在於:當一個人接收到你視覺化所釋放的細膩能量時,雖不自知其來源,但會自然產生一種撫慰心靈的舒適感。這一點並不重要,重點在於,對方此刻與你相處時感到舒適,你也因此贏得了他們的好感。請記住,這種有益的視覺化必須以真誠進行,藉由「心與意的統一」(Unity of heart and mind) 來達成;只要你真心祝福對方,其效果便會十分顯著。(Note: 真誠的視覺化能促進彼此心靈合一)
The difference between the feeling of celebration on an intellectual and an energetic level is this: when a person receives the energy delicacy of your visualisation they experience a comforting feeling without being aware of its source. That does not actually matter. The important thing is that the person will now feel comfortable when they are with you and you will have won their good- will. It is important to remember that a beneficial visualisation like this should be carried out with sincerity by uniting the heart and mind. If you genuinely wish the other person well, the effect can be quite substantial.
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如你所知,正是充沛的自由能量令一個人顯得迷人、充滿磁性、強大而富有魅力。人們常在潛意識中捕捉一個強大個體所散發的能量;根據一個人能量質感的柔和或強烈,他們會展現出不同層次的魅力與力量。無論如何,一個人能量的強度與其自由能量的數量以及「心與意的統一」(Unity of heart and mind) 之間的聯繫密切度呈正比。當過剩的自由能量如同噴泉般湧流時,周圍的人都能感受到那股熱情。自由能量是由思想所編程的;而當心與意 (Unity of heart and mind) 越趨一致,這種編程就越顯純淨。難怪堅強的人格總顯得正直而完整。
As you know, it is the abundance of free energy that makes a person charming, magnetic, powerful and charismatic. People mostly pick up on the energy of a powerful personality subconsciously. Depending on whether the person’s energy is softer or harsher they will come across as more or less charming or powerful. In any case, the force of a person’s energy is proportional to the volume of free energy they run and the strength of their connection between their heart and mind. The excess of free energy overflows in a fountain and is felt by others. Free energy is programmed by thought. The closer the strivings of the heart and mind the purer the programming will be. It is no coincidence that strong personalities come across as having strong integrity and wholeness.
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正如我先前所言,魅力實際上代表著心與意 (Unity of heart and mind) 之間的相互愛慕。當心靈得以舒展,自然使個體更具吸引力與磁性。他們的吸引力不全在於個人力量,而更在於心與意之間的連結。這正是許多人所缺少的,因此,他們猶如飛蛾撲火般被這類人吸引。在能量層面上,魅力展現為一個人當心與意 (Unity of heart and mind) 統一時所釋放出的能量;若噴泉般的能量足夠強大,對方將真正散發出獨一無二的魅力。
As I have already said, charm is in fact mutual love between the heart and mind. When the heart is let out of its box it makes a person more attractive and magnetic. Their attractiveness lies not so much in their personal power as in the connection between their heart and mind. This is what people are lacking and so they feel drawn to such people as moths are drawn to the light. On an energetic level charm represents the energy a person radiates when they have union of heart and mind. If the force of their energy fountains is great enough they will literally shine with inimitable charm.
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那些充滿魅力的人生活在心與意 (Unity of heart and mind) 完全和諧的狀態中,也就是遵循他們自身的信條。他們快樂、享受生命,並沉浸在自愛之中,而毫無絲毫自戀之態。周圍的人都能感受到他們持續洋溢著慶祝生命的喜悅。
People with heaps of charm live in a condition of harmony between the heart and mind, that is, in accordance with their own credo. People like this are happy; they enjoy life and bathe in their own love without the slightest whiff of narcissism. Other people can sense their constant feeling of celebration.
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這樣的人雖然稀少,但你也能成為其中一員。你只需要勇敢地面對自己的內心,學會愛自己,並啟程走向你內心深處的「目標與門扉」(Goals and doors)。如此一來,你的個人特質將隨之改變,你的體態愈加吸引人,面容更顯柔和,笑容也更迷人。當你穩立在你的「生命線」(Life line) 上,你的外在形象——亦即那「替代空間」(Sector of the alternatives space) 中的一部分風景——便會與你見到自我完美時釋放出的能量特質相輔相成。這一切並非遙不可及;若你不信,可瀏覽那些你曾經處於低潮時所拍攝的照片。
Such people are few and far between but you could be one of them. You just have to turn to face your heart, love yourself and set out on the path to your innermost goal. Not only will your personal qualities change but your body will become more attractive, your face softer and your smile enchanting. When you are firmly on your target life line your external appearance, i.e. part of the scenery of that sector, will correspond to the characteristics of the energy you radiate when you see your own perfection. This is not as unlikely as it might seem. If you do not believe me, just look through some photographs of yourself that were taken when you were going through a dark period in your life.
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透過訓練你的經絡 (meridians) 並提升能量水平,你將培養出影響他人並激發他們對你產生善意的非凡能力。要成為派對上的靈魂人物,你只需放下「重要性」(Importance) 的執著,啟動你的能量噴泉。擁有豐沛自由能量的人總能自然吸引他人的興趣與好感;尤其當你的自由能量與在場人士的思想能量相調適時,效果尤為明顯。
By training your meridians and increasing your energy levels you will develop the unusual ability to influence people and inspire their good will towards you. To become the life and soul of the party all you have to do is abandon importance and turn on your energy fountains. A person with an abundance of free energy always evokes the interest and good will of others. This is particularly evident when free energy is attuned to the thought energy of those present.
10/12
你或許會與一群同事或朋友展開討論,此時在場所有人的思想能量似乎都在圍繞同一主題震盪,就像大家齊心合意一般。打開你的能量噴泉,讓它灌注整個團體;感受你的能量場逐漸擴大,覆蓋所有參與者。如此一來,你的發言將更具分量,而其他人也會切實感受到你思想的強大影響力。
You might find yourself having a discussion with a group of colleagues or friends. The frequency of the thought energy of those present will be attuned roughly to the same theme as if they were all swaying in unison. Turn on your fountains and let them flood your group. Feel your energy field and sense it expanding to encompass everyone taking part in the discussion. Then your comments will have greater weight and the other people present will feel the power of your thoughts.
11/12
當你與某人進行一對一交談時,可以在心中為他們投射一個有益的視覺化圖像。若此時你的能量噴泉也在運作,便能營造出極為有利的印象。這項技巧在需要你個人魅力或實力展現的場合中,無論是談判、考試、面試或人際交往,皆能使你脫穎而出,取得巨大成功。
When talking to a person one to one you can mentally launch a beneficial visualisation for them. If your energy fountains are working at the same time you will create a most favourable impression. This technique will grant you a huge advantage in situations that require your personal charm or strength making you successful in negotiations, exams, job interviews and personal relationships.
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一個良好的視覺化是調適到你交談對象頻率的有效且寬容的方法。所謂的能量吸血鬼往往會通過拉扯痛苦的弦線或侵入你內心的靈魂空間來調適對方的 Frailing (Frailing);而你不同於那些吸血鬼,你不會去撥弄對方的 Frailing (Frailing) 或耗盡其能量。對方會感激這種方式,並心存感激。
A favourable visualisation is an effective and tolerant means of attuning to the frequency of the person you are conversing with. Energy vampires attune to fraile by pulling on painful strings or invading your soul space. Unlike energy vampires you are not ‘pawing’ at the other person’s fraile or draining their energy. They will appreciate it and be grateful to you.
關係中的能量
Energy in Relationships
1/12
在“鐘擺(Pendulums)”一章中,我談到了可視化的好處。提醒你一下,可視化的本質如下:假設有人給你帶來了問題,惹惱了你,甚至攻擊了你。或者情況相反,你需要從某人那裡得到一些東西。如果是這樣,你需要大致確定那個人是什麼驅動他們;是什麼在困擾他們,以及他們缺乏什麼:健康、自信、內心的平靜?每個人都有一些東西在侵蝕他們,即使是相對小而煩人的事情,尤其是當那個人給你帶來問題時,或者可能是你給他們帶來問題!現在想像一個情況,這個人正好得到了他們所需要的東西。
In the chapter “pendulums” I talked about the benefit of visualisation. Just to remind you, the essence of visualisation is the following: Let us suppose that someone is causing you a problem, annoying you or even attacking you. Or perhaps the situation is the opposite and you need something from someone. If this is the case, you need to roughly determine what is driving that person; what is eating at them and what they are lacking: health, confidence, inner calm? Everyone has something that eats away at them, even if it is something relatively small and niggling, especially if that person is causing you problems or it may be you causing them a problem! Now imagine a situation in which that person receives exactly what they need.
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例如,想像那個人正在做他們最喜歡的事情,這件事給他們帶來了快樂、成就感和安寧。無需過多考慮有利情境的細節。只需可視化第一個浮現在腦海中的畫面。他們可能坐在家裡,手握一杯啤酒,愉快地在海中游泳,漫步在野花的山谷中,騎自行車或因喜悅而跳躍。如果你能用心中的畫面“取悅”這個人,他們似乎會無緣無故地對你心生好感,並會做你要求的事情,或緩解問題情況。
For example, imagine that person doing what they love most, the thing that gives them a feeling of pleasure, fulfilment and peace. There is no need to think too hard about the details of the favourable scenario. Just visualise the first picture that comes to mind. They might be sitting at home by the fire with a glass of beer, swimming happily in the sea, wandering through a valley of wild flowers, riding a bicycle or jumping for joy. If you manage to “please” this person with the picture in your mind they will become well-disposed towards you seemingly for no reason, and will do what you ask of them, or ease the problematic situation.
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這裡實際上發生了什麼?這與觀看一部好電影幾乎一樣,我指的是一部傳達生活樂趣的電影。你看這樣的電影,你開始感覺良好,你的心充滿了輕鬆歡快的感覺。電影在智力和情感層面上為靈魂創造了一場慶典。有益的可視化也在能量層面上創造了這種感覺。如果你能成功地調整到一個人的Frailing,並猜出他們的需求,他們會感覺到一股安慰的波浪突然湧上心頭。
What is really happening here? It is pretty much the same as watching a good film and by that I mean a film that conveys a sense of the joy of life. You watch a film like that and you begin to feel good, and your heart is filled with a light festive feeling. The film creates a celebration for the soul both on an intellectual and an emotional level. Beneficial visualisation also creates this feeling on an energetic level. If you have been able to successfully attune to a person’s fraile and guess what their needs are, they will feel as if a comforting wave has suddenly come over them.
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智力層面和能量層面的慶祝感之間的區別在於:當一個人接收到你可視化的能量美味時,他們會感受到一種安慰的感覺,而不會意識到其來源。這實際上並不重要。重要的是,這個人現在在你身邊會感到舒適,你將贏得他們的好感。重要的是要記住,這樣的有益可視化應該以真誠的方式進行,通過心靈合一(Unity of heart and mind)。如果你真心希望對方好,效果可能會相當顯著。
The difference between the feeling of celebration on an intellectual and an energetic level is this: when a person receives the energy delicacy of your visualisation they experience a comforting feeling without being aware of its source. That does not actually matter. The important thing is that the person will now feel comfortable when they are with you and you will have won their good- will. It is important to remember that a beneficial visualisation like this should be carried out with sincerity by uniting the heart and mind. If you genuinely wish the other person well, the effect can be quite substantial.
5/12
如你所知,豐富的自由能量使一個人具有魅力、吸引力、力量和魅力。人們大多數是潛意識地感受到強大個體的能量。根據一個人的能量是柔和還是強硬,他們會顯得更有魅力或更有力量。無論如何,一個人的能量力量與他們運行的自由能量量和心靈合一(Unity of heart and mind)的連接強度成正比。自由能量的過剩在噴泉中溢出,並被他人感受到。自由能量由思想編程。心靈合一(Unity of heart and mind)越接近,編程就越純粹。強大的人物通常給人一種完整和統一的感覺,這絕非偶然。
As you know, it is the abundance of free energy that makes a person charming, magnetic, powerful and charismatic. People mostly pick up on the energy of a powerful personality subconsciously. Depending on whether the person’s energy is softer or harsher they will come across as more or less charming or powerful. In any case, the force of a person’s energy is proportional to the volume of free energy they run and the strength of their connection between their heart and mind. The excess of free energy overflows in a fountain and is felt by others. Free energy is programmed by thought. The closer the strivings of the heart and mind the purer the programming will be. It is no coincidence that strong personalities come across as having strong integrity and wholeness.
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如我之前所說,魅力實際上是心靈合一(Unity of heart and mind)之間的相互愛戀。當心靈被釋放出來時,它會使一個人更具吸引力和磁性。他們的吸引力不在於個人的力量,而在於心靈合一(Unity of heart and mind)的連接。這正是人們所缺乏的,因此他們被這樣的人吸引,就像飛蛾撲火一樣。在能量層面上,魅力代表了一個人在心靈合一(Unity of heart and mind)時所輻射的能量。如果他們的能量噴泉力量足夠大,他們將真正閃耀著無與倫比的魅力。
As I have already said, charm is in fact mutual love between the heart and mind. When the heart is let out of its box it makes a person more attractive and magnetic. Their attractiveness lies not so much in their personal power as in the connection between their heart and mind. This is what people are lacking and so they feel drawn to such people as moths are drawn to the light. On an energetic level charm represents the energy a person radiates when they have union of heart and mind. If the force of their energy fountains is great enough they will literally shine with inimitable charm.
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擁有大量魅力的人生活在心靈合一(Unity of heart and mind)的和諧狀態中,也就是說,按照他們自己的信念生活。這樣的人是快樂的;他們享受生活,沉浸在自己的愛中,絲毫不帶自戀的氣息。其他人可以感受到他們不斷的慶祝感。
People with heaps of charm live in a condition of harmony between the heart and mind, that is, in accordance with their own credo. People like this are happy; they enjoy life and bathe in their own love without the slightest whiff of narcissism. Other people can sense their constant feeling of celebration.
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這樣的人少之又少,但你可以成為其中之一。你只需面對你的心靈,愛自己,並踏上通往你內心深處目標的道路。不僅你的個人特質會改變,你的身體也會變得更具吸引力,你的面容更柔和,你的微笑更迷人。當你堅定地走在你的目標生命線(Life line)上時,你的外在形象,即該區域的景觀的一部分,將與你看到自己完美時所輻射的能量特徵相符。這並不像看起來那麼不可能。如果你不相信我,只需看看一些在你生活的黑暗時期拍攝的照片。
Such people are few and far between but you could be one of them. You just have to turn to face your heart, love yourself and set out on the path to your innermost goal. Not only will your personal qualities change but your body will become more attractive, your face softer and your smile enchanting. When you are firmly on your target life line your external appearance, i.e. part of the scenery of that sector, will correspond to the characteristics of the energy you radiate when you see your own perfection. This is not as unlikely as it might seem. If you do not believe me, just look through some photographs of yourself that were taken when you were going through a dark period in your life.
9/12
通過訓練你的經絡並提高你的能量水平,你將發展出影響他人並激發他們對你善意的非凡能力。要成為聚會的靈魂和核心,你所要做的就是放下重要性(Importance)並啟動你的能量噴泉。擁有豐富自由能量的人總是能引起他人的興趣和善意。當自由能量調整到在場者的思想能量時,這一點尤為明顯。
By training your meridians and increasing your energy levels you will develop the unusual ability to influence people and inspire their good will towards you. To become the life and soul of the party all you have to do is abandon importance and turn on your energy fountains. A person with an abundance of free energy always evokes the interest and good will of others. This is particularly evident when free energy is attuned to the thought energy of those present.
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你可能會發現自己正在與一群同事或朋友討論。與會者的思想能量頻率將大致調整到相同的主題,就像他們都在一起搖擺一樣。打開你的噴泉,讓它們淹沒你的小組。感受你的能量場,感覺它擴展到包圍參與討論的每個人。然後你的評論將更具分量,其他在場的人將感受到你的思想力量。
You might find yourself having a discussion with a group of colleagues or friends. The frequency of the thought energy of those present will be attuned roughly to the same theme as if they were all swaying in unison. Turn on your fountains and let them flood your group. Feel your energy field and sense it expanding to encompass everyone taking part in the discussion. Then your comments will have greater weight and the other people present will feel the power of your thoughts.
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當與某人一對一交談時,你可以在心中為他們啟動一個有益的可視化。如果你的能量噴泉同時運作,你將創造出最有利的印象。這種技術將在需要個人魅力或力量的情況下給你帶來巨大的優勢,使你在談判、考試、求職面試和人際關係中取得成功。
When talking to a person one to one you can mentally launch a beneficial visualisation for them. If your energy fountains are working at the same time you will create a most favourable impression. This technique will grant you a huge advantage in situations that require your personal charm or strength making you successful in negotiations, exams, job interviews and personal relationships.
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有益的可視化是調整到你正在交談的人的頻率的一種有效且包容的方法。能量吸血鬼通過拉動痛苦的弦或侵入你的靈魂空間來調整到Frailing。與能量吸血鬼不同,你並沒有“撫摸”對方的Frailing或消耗他們的能量。他們會欣賞這一點,並感激你。
A favourable visualisation is an effective and tolerant means of attuning to the frequency of the person you are conversing with. Energy vampires attune to fraile by pulling on painful strings or invading your soul space. Unlike energy vampires you are not ‘pawing’ at the other person’s fraile or draining their energy. They will appreciate it and be grateful to you.
關係中的能量
Energy in Relationships
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在“擺錘”章節中,我談到可視化的好處。提醒一下,可視化的本質如下:假設某人給你製造問題、惹你惱火甚至攻擊你。或者情況相反,你需要從某人那裡得到什麼。如果是這種情況,你需要大致確定什麼驅使那個人;什麼在困擾他們,他們缺少什麼:健康、自信、內在平靜?每個人都有某種困擾,即使是相對小而煩人的東西,尤其是如果那個人給你製造問題,或者是你給他們製造問題!現在想像一個那個人得到他們所需的情景。
In the chapter “pendulums” I talked about the benefit of visualisation. Just to remind you, the essence of visualisation is the following: Let us suppose that someone is causing you a problem, annoying you or even attacking you. Or perhaps the situation is the opposite and you need something from someone. If this is the case, you need to roughly determine what is driving that person; what is eating at them and what they are lacking: health, confidence, inner calm? Everyone has something that eats away at them, even if it is something relatively small and niggling, especially if that person is causing you problems or it may be you causing them a problem! Now imagine a situation in which that person receives exactly what they need.
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例如,想像那個人做他們最愛的事,給他們快樂、滿足和平靜的感覺。無需過分思考有利場景的細節。只可視化浮現的第一個圖景。他們可能在家裡壁爐旁拿著一杯啤酒,快樂地在海中游泳,漫步於野花谷,騎自行車或歡快地跳躍。如果 你能在腦海中用這個圖景“取悅”這個人,他們會莫名其妙地對你產生好感,會做你請求的事,或緩解問題情況。
For example, imagine that person doing what they love most, the thing that gives them a feeling of pleasure, fulfilment and peace. There is no need to think too hard about the details of the favourable scenario. Just visualise the first picture that comes to mind. They might be sitting at home by the fire with a glass of beer, swimming happily in the sea, wandering through a valley of wild flowers, riding a bicycle or jumping for joy. If you manage to “please” this person with the picture in your mind they will become well-disposed towards you seemingly for no reason, and will do what you ask of them, or ease the problematic situation.
3/12
這裡實際發生什麼?這與觀看一部好電影類似,我指的是傳達生活喜悅感的電影。你看這樣的電影,開始感覺良好,心裡充滿輕快的節日感。電影在智力和情感層面為靈魂創造慶典。有益的可視化也在能量層面創造這種感覺。如果 你成功調諧到一個人的靈魂特質並猜測他們的需求,他們會感覺彷彿突然被一股安慰的波浪籠罩。
What is really happening here? It is pretty much the same as watching a good film and by that I mean a film that conveys a sense of the joy of life. You watch a film like that and you begin to feel good, and your heart is filled with a light festive feeling. The film creates a celebration for the soul both on an intellectual and an emotional level. Beneficial visualisation also creates this feeling on an energetic level. If you have been able to successfully attune to a person’s fraile and guess what their needs are, they will feel as if a comforting wave has suddenly come over them.
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智力和能量層面的節日感的區別在於:當一個人接收到你可視化的能量美味時,他們會體驗到安慰感,卻不知其來源。這其實無關緊要。重要的是那個人現在與你在一起會感到舒適,你會贏得他們的好感。記住,這種有益可視化應以心與頭腦統一 (Unity of Heart and Mind) 的真誠進行。如果你真誠希望對方好,效果可能相當顯著。
The difference between the feeling of celebration on an intellectual and an energetic level is this: when a person receives the energy delicacy of your visualisation they experience a comforting feeling without being aware of its source. That does not actually matter. The important thing is that the person will now feel comfortable when they are with you and you will have won their good- will. It is important to remember that a beneficial visualisation like this should be carried out with sincerity by uniting the heart and mind. If you genuinely wish the other person well, the effect can be quite substantial.
5/12
如你所知,自由能量的豐富使一個人迷人、磁性、強大和有魅力。人們大多潛意識地感受到強大個性的能量。根據一個人能量的柔和或強硬程度,他們會顯得或多或少迷人或強大。無論如何,一個人的能量力量與他們運行的自由能量量和心與頭腦聯繫的強度成正比。自由能量的過剩以噴泉形式溢出,被他人感受到。自由能量由思想編程。心與頭腦的志向越接近,編程越純粹。強大個性給人強烈完整性和整體感的印象並非巧合。
As you know, it is the abundance of free energy that makes a person charming, magnetic, powerful and charismatic. People mostly pick up on the energy of a powerful personality subconsciously. Depending on whether the person’s energy is softer or harsher they will come across as more or less charming or powerful. In any case, the force of a person’s energy is proportional to the volume of free energy they run and the strength of their connection between their heart and mind. The excess of free energy overflows in a fountain and is felt by others. Free energy is programmed by thought. The closer the strivings of the heart and mind the purer the programming will be. It is no coincidence that strong personalities come across as having strong integrity and wholeness.
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正如我已說,魅力實際上是心與頭腦的相互愛。當心從盒子裡釋放出來,一個人變得更有吸引力、更具磁性。他們的吸引力不在於個人力量,而在於心與頭腦的聯繫。這是人們缺乏的,因此他們像飛蛾撲向光一樣被這樣的人吸引。在能量層面,魅力代表一個人在心與頭腦統一時散發的能量。如果他們的能量噴泉力量足夠大,他們會散發出無與倫比的魅力。
As I have already said, charm is in fact mutual love between the heart and mind. When the heart is let out of its box it makes a person more attractive and magnetic. Their attractiveness lies not so much in their personal power as in the connection between their heart and mind. This is what people are lacking and so they feel drawn to such people as moths are drawn to the light. On an energetic level charm represents the energy a person radiates when they have union of heart and mind. If the force of their energy fountains is great enough they will literally shine with inimitable charm.
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魅力十足的人生活在心與頭腦的和諧狀態,即遵循自己的信條。這樣的人快樂;他們享受生活,沐浴在自己的愛中,毫無自戀的氣息。其他人能感受到他們持續的節日感。
People with heaps of charm live in a condition of harmony between the heart and mind, that is, in accordance with their own credo. People like this are happy; they enjoy life and bathe in their own love without the slightest whiff of narcissism. Other people can sense their constant feeling of celebration.
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這樣的人很少,但你可以成為其中之一。你只需轉向你的心,愛自己,走上通往最內心目標的道路。不僅你的個人品質會改變,你的身體會變得更有吸引力,臉龐更柔和,微笑更迷人。當你穩固地站在目標人生線 (Life Line) 上,你的外在形象,即該區段的場景部分,將對應於你看到自己完美時散發的能量特徵。這不像看起來那麼不可能。如果你不相信我,看看你在人生低谷時拍的照片。
Such people are few and far between but you could be one of them. You just have to turn to face your heart, love yourself and set out on the path to your innermost goal. Not only will your personal qualities change but your body will become more attractive, your face softer and your smile enchanting. When you are firmly on your target life line your external appearance, i.e. part of the scenery of that sector, will correspond to the characteristics of the energy you radiate when you see your own perfection. This is not as unlikely as it might seem. If you do not believe me, just look through some photographs of yourself that were taken when you were going through a dark period in your life.
9/12
通過訓練經絡和提升能量水平,你會發展出影響他人並激發他們對你好感的非凡能力。要成為派對的靈魂,你只需放棄重要性 (Importance),開啟你的能量噴泉。擁有豐富自由能量的人總是會激發他人的興趣和好感。當自由能量調諧到在場者的思想能量時,這一點尤為明顯。
By training your meridians and increasing your energy levels you will develop the unusual ability to influence people and inspire their good will towards you. To become the life and soul of the party all you have to do is abandon importance and turn on your energy fountains. A person with an abundance of free energy always evokes the interest and good will of others. This is particularly evident when free energy is attuned to the thought energy of those present.
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你可能與一群同事或朋友討論。在場者的思想能量頻率大致調諧到同一主題,彷彿他們在齊聲搖擺。開啟你的噴泉,讓它們淹沒你的群體。感覺你的能量場,感受到它擴展到涵蓋參與討論的每個人。然後你的評論會更有分量,其他在場者會感受到你思想的力量。
You might find yourself having a discussion with a group of colleagues or friends. The frequency of the thought energy of those present will be attuned roughly to the same theme as if they were all swaying in unison. Turn on your fountains and let them flood your group. Feel your energy field and sense it expanding to encompass everyone taking part in the discussion. Then your comments will have greater weight and the other people present will feel the power of your thoughts.
11/12
在一對一交談時,你可以在腦海中為對方啟動有益可視化。如果你的能量噴泉同時運作,你會創造最有利的印象。這種技術在需要個人魅力或力量的情況下將給你巨大優勢,使你在談判、考試、面試和個人關係中成功。
When talking to a person one to one you can mentally launch a beneficial visualisation for them. If your energy fountains are working at the same time you will create a most favourable impression. This technique will grant you a huge advantage in situations that require your personal charm or strength making you successful in negotiations, exams, job interviews and personal relationships.
12/12
有益可視化是調諧到你與之交談的人頻率的有效且寬容的手段。能量吸血鬼通過拉動痛苦的弦或侵入你的靈魂空間來調諧到靈魂特質。與能量吸血鬼不同,你不“撫摸”對方的靈魂特質或吸取他們的能量。他們會感激並感謝你。
A favourable visualisation is an effective and tolerant means of attuning to the frequency of the person you are conversing with. Energy vampires attune to fraile by pulling on painful strings or invading your soul space. Unlike energy vampires you are not ‘pawing’ at the other person’s fraile or draining their energy. They will appreciate it and be grateful to you.
關係中的能量
Energy in Relationships
1/12
在“擺動”(pendulums)一章中,我談到了可視化的好處。提醒你一下,可視化的本質如下:假設某人給你帶來了問題,惹惱了你,甚至攻擊了你。或者情況正好相反,你需要某人提供某些東西。如果是這樣,你需要大致確定驅動那個人的因素;是什麼在困擾他們,他們缺少什麼:健康、自信、內心的平靜?每個人都有一些困擾他們的事情,即使是相對小且煩人的事情,尤其是當那個人給你帶來問題時,或者可能是你給他們帶來問題!現在想像一個情況,那個人得到了他們所需要的東西。
In the chapter “pendulums” I talked about the benefit of visualisation. Just to remind you, the essence of visualisation is the following: Let us suppose that someone is causing you a problem, annoying you or even attacking you. Or perhaps the situation is the opposite and you need something from someone. If this is the case, you need to roughly determine what is driving that person; what is eating at them and what they are lacking: health, confidence, inner calm? Everyone has something that eats away at them, even if it is something relatively small and niggling, especially if that person is causing you problems or it may be you causing them a problem! Now imagine a situation in which that person receives exactly what they need.
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例如,想像那個人正在做他們最喜愛的事情,這件事給他們帶來快樂、滿足和內心的平靜。無需過於關注有利場景的細節。只需可視化第一個浮現在腦海中的畫面。他們可能坐在家裡的火爐旁,喝著啤酒,快樂地在海裡游泳,漫步在野花的山谷中,騎著自行車或跳著歡呼。如果你能用心中的畫面“取悅”這個人,他們會對你產生好感,似乎沒有理由,並會按照你的要求行事,或緩解問題情況。
For example, imagine that person doing what they love most, the thing that gives them a feeling of pleasure, fulfilment and peace. There is no need to think too hard about the details of the favourable scenario. Just visualise the first picture that comes to mind. They might be sitting at home by the fire with a glass of beer, swimming happily in the sea, wandering through a valley of wild flowers, riding a bicycle or jumping for joy. If you manage to “please” this person with the picture in your mind they will become well-disposed towards you seemingly for no reason, and will do what you ask of them, or ease the problematic situation.
3/12
這裡到底發生了什麼?這幾乎就像在看一部好電影,我的意思是能傳達生命喜悅感的電影。你看這樣的電影,開始感覺良好,心中充滿了輕鬆的節日氣氛。這部電影在智力和情感層面上為靈魂創造了一場慶祝活動。有效的視覺化在能量層面上也能創造這種感覺。如果你能成功地調整到一個人的脆弱(fraile)並猜出他們的需求,他們會感覺到一股安慰的幸運波(Wave of fortune)突然降臨在他們身上。
What is really happening here? It is pretty much the same as watching a good film and by that I mean a film that conveys a sense of the joy of life. You watch a film like that and you begin to feel good, and your heart is filled with a light festive feeling. The film creates a celebration for the soul both on an intellectual and an emotional level. Beneficial visualisation also creates this feeling on an energetic level. If you have been able to successfully attune to a person’s fraile and guess what their needs are, they will feel as if a comforting wave has suddenly come over them.
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在智力和能量層面上慶祝的感覺之間的區別在於:當一個人接收到你視覺化的能量細膩(delicacy)時,他們會在不知其源的情況下感受到安慰的感覺。這其實並不重要。重要的是,這個人現在會在你身邊感到舒適,你將贏得他們的善意(good-will)。重要的是要記住,像這樣的有益視覺化應該以誠摯的方式進行,通過心靈和思想的統一(Unity of heart and mind)。如果你真心希望對方好,效果可能會相當顯著。
The difference between the feeling of celebration on an intellectual and an energetic level is this: when a person receives the energy delicacy of your visualisation they experience a comforting feeling without being aware of its source. That does not actually matter. The important thing is that the person will now feel comfortable when they are with you and you will have won their good- will. It is important to remember that a beneficial visualisation like this should be carried out with sincerity by uniting the heart and mind. If you genuinely wish the other person well, the effect can be quite substantial.
5/12
如你所知,正是自由能量的豐富使一個人變得迷人、吸引人、有力量和有魅力。人們大多是潛意識地感知到強大個性的能量。根據一個人的能量是柔和還是強烈,他們會顯得更迷人或更有力量。無論如何,一個人的能量力量與他們所擁有的自由能量的量成正比,以及他們心靈與思想之間的連結強度。多餘的自由能量如噴泉般溢出,並被他人感受到。自由能量是由思想編程的。心靈和思想的追求越接近,編程就會越純粹。強大個性給人的印象是擁有強烈的誠信和完整性並非巧合。
As you know, it is the abundance of free energy that makes a person charming, magnetic, powerful and charismatic. People mostly pick up on the energy of a powerful personality subconsciously. Depending on whether the person’s energy is softer or harsher they will come across as more or less charming or powerful. In any case, the force of a person’s energy is proportional to the volume of free energy they run and the strength of their connection between their heart and mind. The excess of free energy overflows in a fountain and is felt by others. Free energy is programmed by thought. The closer the strivings of the heart and mind the purer the programming will be. It is no coincidence that strong personalities come across as having strong integrity and wholeness.
6/12
如我所說,魅力實際上是心靈與思想之間的相互愛。當心靈從其盒子中釋放出來時,會使一個人變得更具吸引力和磁性。他們的吸引力不在於他們的個人力量,而在於他們心靈與思想之間的連結。這正是人們所缺乏的,因此他們會像飛蛾被光吸引一樣被這樣的人吸引。在能量層面上,魅力代表著一個人在心靈與思想統一時所散發的能量。如果他們的能量噴泉的力量足夠大,他們將真正散發出無法模仿的魅力。
As I have already said, charm is in fact mutual love between the heart and mind. When the heart is let out of its box it makes a person more attractive and magnetic. Their attractiveness lies not so much in their personal power as in the connection between their heart and mind. This is what people are lacking and so they feel drawn to such people as moths are drawn to the light. On an energetic level charm represents the energy a person radiates when they have union of heart and mind. If the force of their energy fountains is great enough they will literally shine with inimitable charm.
7/12
擁有大量魅力的人生活在心靈與思想之間的和諧狀態中,也就是說,符合他們自己的信條。這樣的人是快樂的;他們享受生活,沐浴在自己的愛中,毫無自戀的氣息。其他人能感受到他們持續的慶祝感。
People with heaps of charm live in a condition of harmony between the heart and mind, that is, in accordance with their own credo. People like this are happy; they enjoy life and bathe in their own love without the slightest whiff of narcissism. Other people can sense their constant feeling of celebration.
8/12
這樣的人少之又少,但你可能就是其中之一。你只需轉向你的心靈,愛自己,踏上通往你內心目標的道路。你的個人特質不僅會改變,你的身體會變得更具吸引力,面容更柔和,微笑更迷人。當你堅定地走在你的生命線(life line)上時,你的外在形象,即該區域的部分景觀,將與你在看到自己完美時所散發的能量特徵相符。這並不像看起來那麼不可能。如果你不相信我,只需查看一些在你生活中經歷黑暗時期拍攝的照片。
Such people are few and far between but you could be one of them. You just have to turn to face your heart, love yourself and set out on the path to your innermost goal. Not only will your personal qualities change but your body will become more attractive, your face softer and your smile enchanting. When you are firmly on your target life line your external appearance, i.e. part of the scenery of that sector, will correspond to the characteristics of the energy you radiate when you see your own perfection. This is not as unlikely as it might seem. If you do not believe me, just look through some photographs of yourself that were taken when you were going through a dark period in your life.
9/12
通過訓練你的經絡並提高你的能量水平,你將發展出影響他人並激發他們對你的善意的非凡能力。要成為聚會的靈魂和生命,你所要做的就是放棄重要性(Importance),並啟動你的能量噴泉。擁有大量自由能量的人總是能引起他人興趣和善意。這在自由能量與在場者的思想能量調和時尤為明顯。
By training your meridians and increasing your energy levels you will develop the unusual ability to influence people and inspire their good will towards you. To become the life and soul of the party all you have to do is abandon importance and turn on your energy fountains. A person with an abundance of free energy always evokes the interest and good will of others. This is particularly evident when free energy is attuned to the thought energy of those present.
10/12
你可能會發現自己在與一群同事或朋友討論。與會者的思想能量頻率將大致調和到同一主題,就像他們都在一起搖擺。啟動你的噴泉,讓它們淹沒你的團體。感受你的能量場,並感知它擴展到包圍所有參與討論的人。然後你的評論將更具分量,其他在場的人將感受到你思想的力量。
You might find yourself having a discussion with a group of colleagues or friends. The frequency of the thought energy of those present will be attuned roughly to the same theme as if they were all swaying in unison. Turn on your fountains and let them flood your group. Feel your energy field and sense it expanding to encompass everyone taking part in the discussion. Then your comments will have greater weight and the other people present will feel the power of your thoughts.
11/12
在與一個人一對一交談時,你可以在心中啟動一個有益的視覺化。如果你的能量噴泉同時運作,你將創造出最有利的印象。這種技術將在需要你個人魅力或力量的情況下給你帶來巨大的優勢,使你在談判、考試、面試和人際關係中獲得成功。
When talking to a person one to one you can mentally launch a beneficial visualisation for them. If your energy fountains are working at the same time you will create a most favourable impression. This technique will grant you a huge advantage in situations that require your personal charm or strength making you successful in negotiations, exams, job interviews and personal relationships.
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有利的視覺化是一種有效且寬容的手段,用於調整與你交談的人的頻率。能量吸血鬼通過拉扯痛苦的弦或侵入你的靈魂空間來調整脆弱(fraile)。與能量吸血鬼不同,你並不是在“抓取”對方的脆弱或耗盡他們的能量。他們會感激你並對你心存感激。
A favourable visualisation is an effective and tolerant means of attuning to the frequency of the person you are conversing with. Energy vampires attune to fraile by pulling on painful strings or invading your soul space. Unlike energy vampires you are not ‘pawing’ at the other person’s fraile or draining their energy. They will appreciate it and be grateful to you.